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5 Steps to Retain What You Read

Not all books deserve to be read. Of those that should be read, there are methods to get the most out of them. Taking good notes is the first step. If you don’t take notes, then you’re wasting the time you took to read the book. One pass is not sufficient to digest and commit to memory much beyond the main premise.

Proper note taking can be time consuming, especially when there is a tendency to reread large portions of the book. If understanding and assimilation are the goals, then it is time well spent. (Slow Thoughts are the point)

Overview

For my process, taking a few weeks (or months) between finishing the book and compiling the notes helps to separate the wheat from the chaff. When reading, I focus on reading; when note taking, I focus on note taking.

To get the most of of the book, I had to become an active reader. I never used to write in books and would keep them in pristine condition. Not anymore. Now, I regularly write in them and dog ear pages with notes. I’ll underline passages or bracket paragraphs, write notes and comments in the margins. I’ll also use the end-papers (blank pages at the front and back of the book) for my own index of sorts if needed. All this allows me to quickly scan and find parts that I want to go back to in the book itself. This active reading is quick and stays in the book. And of course, if there’s a great idea or something burning, I will email it to myself or write it in my daily journal.

As I developed my process, I’ve found it works well for both non-fiction and fiction. When compiling my notes, scanning the whole book is necessary too, making sure I didn’t miss anything else or if a passage means more now after reading beyond it. I also only copy the notes that still are relevant and worth taking.

The Set Up

Before we dive into the process, one quick word on where to keep your notes. Hard copy, old fashion handwritten notes are still the best. It has been proven that handwriting notes develop better understanding and retention. So I use a notebook, a leuchtturm1917 dot grid journal to be precise. It ticks all the boxes needed for making a personal reference notebook: nice paper, numbered pages, 2 ribbons and an index in the front. There’s also labels for the cover and spine.

To begin, the specific method I use derived in-part from being a bullet journal-er. I only log one book at a time to avoid splitting notes, but should you wish to or if you fill the notebook, threading the pages (writing the page number of the instance before and after), it’s not a big deal. Once I have the notebook and a pen, the setup goes like this:

The Notes

Step 1

Log the title and author on the index in the front of the notebook on the index page.

Step 2

Create the initial notes layout. On the page that you are starting the notes, log the title, Author, Publisher, Rating and page count. Below that, leave space for a quick summary to fill in later.

Book title and summary page

On the next page, I break it into 3 sections, Key Insights, Glitches and Holes. I’ll list the key points that I learned, if the author was wrong and what was missing from book. Following that, I list Actions to Take at the top. This is the most important part of the notes if it’s on the how-to side. As I fill it in, I make a check box, list the action and then the page of the book and notebook that generated it for reference.

Insights and Actions Pages

The page after Actions, I make a chapter index for the Book and where the notes fall in the notebook.

Chapter and Note Index

The following pages are the notes.

The Notes

Step 3

Review the book and write the notes. I box the chapter and title so I know where I am in the book. I leave a little space for a asterisk to signify important notes and reverse indent. It makes reviewing easier and saves space. Reverse indenting means I don’t indent the first line of the note, but indent the second and following lines. My notes consist of quotes or passages from the book, summary of an idea or scene, something I want to remember, an action or and idea of my own triggered by the book. I’ve also copied lists and questions down too. I always write the page number that the note came from at the end. Ideas and to-dos are logged in the Actions to take section with page number references. The next steps four and five are optional.

Step 4

If it is a book that generated a significant amount of actions, I log it into my personal Basecamp under a To-Dos section. It can wait as long as it needs to. I have automated reminding myself. I also do not need to be actively looking at multiple book notes to remember to do it. If it is something that a team member needs to do, I can assign it to them as well via Basecamp.

Step 5

Quote Cards

Quotes. I love quotes. I will write my favorites on note cards and put them on my desk as a reminder. The cards are preciously placed on a little art easel. When the stack falls over, I change it. I log the source and when I found them on they back too. And, I’ll digitize them in Evernote for easy reference.

By the time Step 5 is completed, I’ve read the book once, skimmed it once, handwritten the best parts and logged the best of the best digitally, summarized it in my own words and systematized the ongoing to-dos. It is now in my brain to the point where I will remember it long into the future and be able to use what I’ve learned in other aspects of my life.

Bonus Step 6

For tackling the classics and other great works, I found How to Read A Book, by Mortimer Adler and Charles Van Doren enormously helpful. I’ve written about it before, and it’s the best deep dive on notation, marginalia, questions to ask while reading and how to read syntopically. I began to develop this practice after reading it.

So there it is.

10 Books for My Kid’s Library

Life isn’t permanent. As a Dad, I know I wont always be there for them. So in case I’m taken out by a bus or fall off the roof while they’re young, I’ve put together a lifetime library for each of my kids. These books will give them a solid foundation to build their lives on and impart some of the wisdom I want them to have. The plan is to give it them in person and make the journey with them, but if not, well that’s the point.


Here’s my kid’s library:

  1. How to Read a Book By Mortimer Adler and Charles Van Doren
    I stumbled into this after purchasing the Great Books of the Western World, of which Adler was editor in chief. It’s the best place to start before starting a reading lifetime. This should be standard issue for freshman in high school. You’re not going to give the full effort outlined here to every book, but it will certainly help get more out of every book you spend time reading. Should you tackle a beast, such as War and Peace or Plato’s Republic you’ll be best equipped to more out of it. It teaches the basics of note taking and goes all the way to arguing with an author who has been dead for centuries. If the advice given is applied, you’ll be a better thinker for it.
  2. Gates of Fire By Steven Pressfield
    I got this as both an audio book and paperback. An amazing work of historical fiction about the Spartan 300 and the Battle of Thermopylae. Not only is it wonderfully entertaining, it gives balance to our self-interested culture and exploring the reasons for and emotions of tribe first culture. It explores many needed virtues, such as courage, honor, and self-sacrifice.
  3. Think and Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill
    This is one of the first and probably the best overall self-improvement book. Given the number I’ve read in the genre, pretty much all others repeat a form of it’s topics or fit under one of its laws. A close second, would be Outwitting the Devil by the same author, which gives back story to this one and is an amazing work in its own right. Think and Grow Rich is another book that should be read at high school or as soon after as possible. The references are dated from the 1920s and 30s, but you can still see his suggestions today in our modern world. A great example is putting your picture on your resume’, and now we have LinkedIn profile pictures.
  4. The Richest Man in Babylon By George S. Clason
    Sound financial advice and a topic that should be on any well rounded book list. I read this just out of college. Very entertaining story told on a traditionally dry subject. It does not focus on picking hot stocks or get rich quick schemes; but rather, saving money and stopping waste. Very common sense, but shocking how many people don’t follow the rules of gold.
  5. Crucial Conversations By Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, Switzler
    A gem of a book. A sound path for discussing and resolving difficult subjects with aiming for minimal emotional upset and the best outcome possible. Every person who has to speak with other people should read this book. Not only for help in business, but I made my wife read it and our marriage has greatly improved. It works great with kids too, not that younger ones can read it, but using the strategies helps to be a better parent. Effective communication is something should be in a kid’s library.
  6. The Obstacle is the Way By Ryan Holiday
    I came across this book shortly after I had read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and Discourses by Epictetus in the Harvard Classics. He breaks down the tried and true process for surmounting the difficulties that will arise. I’ve used the process outlined in my own life and helped friends through massive breakups and challenges by using it to help them get a grip on their thinking and move forward.
  7. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People By Stephen Covey
    I picked this up at a garage sale for 25 cents 7 years ago. What a fantastic book. It covers the overarching habits, not ones like brushing your teeth. The Habits that govern attitude, mindset and interpersonal relationships. This book pairs well with Crucial Conversations and the next book on the list. I got so much out of the 7 Habits that I bought The 7 Habits of Happy Kids and the corresponding Game for the family. As my kids hit their teen years, I buy them The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. Not only has it helped them cope with growing up, it has made parenting them easier too. We are able to keep them on track by calling them out on the habits when needed. Having that common frame of reference has made helping them grow and develop so much easier.
  8. Essnetialism by Greg McKeown
    This is a great primer on minimalism. The main thrust is to learn to say “no” effectively, question what adds meaning to life and what takes away from it. I try to revisit this book several times per year. Nature doesn’t tolerate a vacuum. Once you’ve freed up time, energy and mental resources, it is challenging to keep it free. Constantly reviewing and revisiting has been very helpful long term.
  9. The Well-Educated Mind by Susan Wise-Bauer
    For a brief period we home schooled one of our children and wanted to enrich the other’s, so we picked up the home school version of this book and then promptly purchased this, the adult education version. Come to find out, public school and college left me with vast gaps in knowledge. This is a guide on how to fill it. It overlaps slightly with How to Read a Book, but then goes into books lists and brief introductions along with best versions of hundreds of books to read. It is a condensed version of the Great Books of sorts. A wonderful rabbit hole to tumble down.
  10. The Bible
    The best seller of all time obviously needs to be in my kid’s library. Our modern age doesn’t want to step on toes and, heaven forbid, offend someone, but this should be read by believers and non-believers alike. Not only is it culturally important to better understand the west, but it provides probably the best discourse on how to live well as a human. From Proverbs (one of my favorites) to the New Testament, we would all do well if we lived closer to the Golden Rule and moral code it outlines. It shows how to truly help those less fortunate without stripping the rights of others and how to place personal responsibility firmly where it belongs. Whether you believe we’ve fallen from grace or evolved from the primordial ooze, or both, the fact remains that Human Nature hasn’t changed and we’re not perfect. Make sure you’ve read How To Read a Book though, as the Bible is deep and those skills will help get the most out of it.
  11. Bonus Book(s) The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien (I know, but 10 wasn’t enough spots)
    The movies are cool, but the books are where it is at. They are great reads as a teenager. Reading them again as an adult, while still wildly entertaining, they provide a full discourse on the human experience. Within the events and characters, topics displayed are: power and corruption, the good life, courage and honor, cowardice and greed, forgiveness and mercy, good vs evil, sacrifice, love and friendship, wisdom and folly, change, respect for the past and hope for the future, acceptance and so much more. I just had to put this master work in my kid’s library.

So there it is. What I’ve chosen to give my kids while I’m here or should I meet an unexpected end. If you haven’t read them, I think they’re worth your while and consider making a kids library of your own. If you use the links or pick them up at your local bookstore, I don’t care. I hope it helps you and yours on the journey.

Want to see more of my book lists? Check out my Book Notes!